7:35 p.m. - 01/16/03
you see, and to me, that's poetry too.
I am not an angry girl. I'm a girl who feels anger. There's a difference. * Alarm by Mary Brave my surroundings lie somewhere between sick and sickening somewhere between sadness, screaming tantrum-throwing and a groan there's this poem and boiling below all the injustice I must see there's still me. I'm still aware though callous Calvin Klein ads model not to care though mastered masses maintain the status quo we claim our helplessness not our despair we use the proven slogan "life is never fair" to excuse ourselves from progressing toward that goal better keep our gazes down now better keep our voices low listen closely to the lullabies that play so subtly while we fight to stay awake keep one eye open when you're sleeping one punch primed so your spirit doesn't break it's not too late. this is our alarm. my dear, there's no such thing as harmless hatred no such thing as just a joke, just a jingle, just a word every single song you've ever heard shapes you, the words you listen to instill inside a silence, if you refuse to speak, so right now, I need you to shout I need you to let your most dangerous angers leak out here's mine. here's where my mind goes when it refuses to toe the line outside wal-mart between the carousel and the claw machine, there's a metal scale whose talons tear at me; it's fool-proof or so it reads. it's perfectly capable of quantifying me and spitting back a number nice and round. it can condense me pound for pound it dares define me by my weight it lies: it tells me, you are too big to survive on such an empty plate. go back inside. pick up a few more products to amuse your lazy self along the ride. it clues me in to what I need so I stay stuck inside that revolving door. call me insatiable. I need more. more. more. stored inside me there is endless energy ferocity. elements and chemicals climb in beakers between my muscles and my bones I escape measurement. I echo like an earthquake off the ground. coax my voice to taste the timbre of new sounds. I escalate. my needs know nothing of my weight. my worth is not weighed in pounds. do you understand? every way I turn I'm cornered. I must defend the life I'm meant to live. I must defend my generosity, when despite their pressure, I refuse to give. I come home exhausted (the effort it takes to counter their conditioning) I slip into a chair. click the television on I'm only half-aware. I am weary. I'm ready to relax. I'm not in the mood to defend myself against a whole new set of these subtle, sickening attacks. example: she's belittled. beaten. raped. she is a whore. she's a slut. overweight. she stuffs food inside to silence her own need for more. she's low on the totem pole. base. she scrubs and paints and cuts apart her face. surely someone in l.a. can repair. her teeth her lips her thighs her skin her hair. we're so busy watching weight we're unaware we aren't defined by the poison they've placed inside our minds. every thought inside us is electric. consider that. I have a great relationship with gravity. they call it fat. ym (readership: women twelve to twenty-four) wants to know how I handle those diet-coke cravings when I just can't seem to take them anymore let me tell you what else I can't take what can simply screw itself for the fucking sake of half the population (or more: I believe in male feminists, men with open eyes willing to join the war). I'm for burning every Subway napkin, lighting a flame under its calorie comparisons, its claim that people are somehow lesser for enjoying cheese. please. someone revamp lifetime tv. television for women? when all we are is lost, harassed, abused? these are the dramas that amuse the women they invent. I suppose. those women I know think it's an issue when corporations misuse their power to impose a standard of the extreme. we stifle our outrage when we allow this to entertain. we lose our right to stand in our own forums, to explain in our own words. because yes these tales of triumph over torture must be heard but you have a voice, too. you have your own words and the solution needs as many stanzas as you allow the injury tell me of your pain, then start again with your recovery our discovery is silenced. they've heard it all before. but it will take more than a decade or two of new stories to even the score. there's more. if you need it, I'll explain the story of the individual who drains an entire bottle of diet pills in less than one day going to exercise my inferiority away I can't check my e-mail without the latest e-diets ad greeting me, depleting me it's a constant barrage. do I even exist inside this? am I just a media-induced hallucination? a mirage? after years of Oxygen, I'm still gasping for air still rearranging old mantras to read: is this really fair? is this really all we are? can we really cure our crises with a bimbo and a brand new car? I'll show you the scars cut into me by fashion magazines, situation-comedies, commercials selling jewelry and buying souls. this isn't less important because it's been around so long. it's more intense. it's equally wrong. but momma's got the magic of clorox and barbie's got the plastic smile what else do we need? speak up we've all been encapsulated
we all have the right to be freed.
one day, tears stinging all three of my eyes I was ordered to realize that "I can't go off in a corner and pout every time I face something unfair." the truth inside a statement spoken with such cruelty is rare. but it is true. I can't run away. I have to scream my stories, recognize the resistance, progress anyway listen. you can hear the possibility. consider me. consider what you have to say. consider where you go when you can't run away. what's left? the opportunity. what if every so often a choosy *father* chose Jif? a girl in touch with an entire spectrum of emotions wasn't angry, unfeminine, condemned? what if it wasn't always us against them? we witness our history and use it to create our future, our fate. this is what I know (now) it isn't too late. it�s time to let our voices loose. shake out new surroundings with their weight. * chord
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